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Stalking

Posted by LuchAAA on Thu Sep 18 21:57:49 2014

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I go to a certain store and met a woman who works there that I really like.

So I asked her out and she said, "No".

I still go to the store. Have been there many times since.

She seems really pissed that I come back. Since asking her out I engaged in very small talk but nothing beyond that. Never asked her out again.

I like the store and want to continue going there.

But she seems uneasy that I still patronize this business.

So I'm going to talk to her and tell her that I'm sorry if she's uneasy that I keep coming back, and will do my best to come after her shift. I don't want to make someone feel uncomfortable.


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Re: Stalking

Posted by Dave on Thu Sep 18 22:13:17 2014, in response to Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Thu Sep 18 21:57:49 2014.

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Touch of class, Lunch. That's the way to do it.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by Nilet on Thu Sep 18 22:48:33 2014, in response to Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Thu Sep 18 21:57:49 2014.

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See, that's the sort of thing that never happens in my country! Well, actually it might. I don't pay much attention to human affairs. It certainly doesn't happen among the 96% of my country's population that isn't human.

Well, at least the people who aren't human. Country Wide Fabricating Corporation has been very uneasy around me ever since I made a grab at their assets. They should be grateful they're "merely" uncomfortable— according to my board, a hostile takeover isn't entirely out of the question. CWFC has a hot press patent that I'd love to get a piece of, and they'd better give it up if they want this merger to go smoothly. Consent is for people— this is business.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by SelkirkTMO on Fri Sep 19 00:47:06 2014, in response to Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Thu Sep 18 21:57:49 2014.

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She's going to have to realize at some point that she has her life and you have yours, and NEITHER of you should have to change ways just because of some uneasiness. No need to apologize, just say hello and just leave it at that. Eventually it will all pass the more both of you just get on with it and have no more than just "hi" if you happen to run into each other. That's how YOU should handle it.

If she can't, then it's HER issue, not yours. There's no reason for you to change your life to accommodate whatever her hangup is, nor should she. Maybe could have been something, maybe not. Don't sweat it.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by Dand124 on Fri Sep 19 00:59:25 2014, in response to Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Thu Sep 18 21:57:49 2014.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 01:15:32 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by Dand124 on Fri Sep 19 00:59:25 2014.

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?

Explain.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 01:31:43 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by SelkirkTMO on Fri Sep 19 00:47:06 2014.

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Yeah, but it's her place of work.

I'm this guy who knows where she works and when she's there so I understand her feeling. It's kind of one of helplessness and frustration. "Is he going to come in again"? "Is he really coming here for the store or to see me"?

So I'm going to tell her that I'll come when she's not there and "goodbye".

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Re: Stalking

Posted by Nilet on Fri Sep 19 01:48:09 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 01:15:32 2014.

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Stocking. Homophonic with stalking in some places. Not to me; no idea where Dand124 is from.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by SelkirkTMO on Fri Sep 19 01:48:34 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 01:31:43 2014.

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And YOU are the customer. Ask any REAL business person who they'd favor. Sorry guy, she'll have to deal with it. As long as you don't harass her or make a scene, it's a BUSINESS and you have a right to be there. You pay, she gets paid. THIW.

Try to be nice and let her know that you won't be leaning on her or trying again and that's the only obligation you have as a "loyal customer" ... if she's bothered, then she'll just have to be a professional and that's what she gets paid to do there. Remember ... you're the income, she's the expense. Try to be nice about it and all and if she wants to step away and let somebody else ring you up, that's up to her as long as you get served by the business.

It really IS all about business, no need to explain anything unless YOU become a stalker. That'd be different. But then again I know you. Feel free to patronize the business, you're the customer and you are kind as far as "free trade" goes. No worries, brah. I know you have enough cooth to leave her alone if she's not interested.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by chicagomotorman on Fri Sep 19 03:28:48 2014, in response to Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Thu Sep 18 21:57:49 2014.

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Luch quit wasting your time, these broads don't want to go out with you.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 11:11:11 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by chicagomotorman on Fri Sep 19 03:28:48 2014.

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and I'm not going to ask her out.

the bar would be set so high at this point a good date would be almost impossible to have.


i think she is acting childishly because after she said "no", months ago, I never once tried to convince her that she should go out with me.

she does not even date. has not in a decade because she does not trust men.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 11:13:51 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by Nilet on Fri Sep 19 01:48:09 2014.

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Not to me; no idea where Dand124 is from.

he's of Irish-Catholic heritage, living in Cook County but is from the Boston area.




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Re: Stalking

Posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 11:17:43 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by Nilet on Thu Sep 18 22:48:33 2014.

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Post of the week!!

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Re: Stalking

Posted by ChicagoMotorman on Fri Sep 19 11:26:18 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 11:17:43 2014.

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FUCK YOU!

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Re: Stalking

Posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 11:26:49 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by ChicagoMotorman on Fri Sep 19 11:26:18 2014.

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you are embarrassing yourself.



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Re: Stalking, now here's the real post of the week

Posted by ChicagoMotorman on Fri Sep 19 11:27:44 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 11:17:43 2014.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by ChicagoMotorman on Fri Sep 19 11:30:08 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 11:26:49 2014.

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You are a fraud.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 11:32:13 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by ChicagoMotorman on Fri Sep 19 11:30:08 2014.

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you are embarrassing yourself.

over what again?




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Re: Stalking

Posted by salaamallah@hotmail.com on Fri Sep 19 12:29:38 2014, in response to Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Thu Sep 18 21:57:49 2014.

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maybe she is married or seeing someone ELSE

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Re: Stalking

Posted by Terrapin Station on Fri Sep 19 13:28:27 2014, in response to Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Thu Sep 18 21:57:49 2014.

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pics?

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Re: Stalking

Posted by ChicagoMotorman on Fri Sep 19 13:34:08 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by Terrapin Station on Fri Sep 19 13:28:27 2014.

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lol

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Re: Stalking

Posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 13:39:55 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by Terrapin Station on Fri Sep 19 13:28:27 2014.

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pics? so you can masturbate furiously to them like you do to the pics you take of young unsuspecting females in the subway?

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Re: Stalking

Posted by RIPTA42HopeTunnel on Fri Sep 19 13:56:53 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by chicagomotorman on Fri Sep 19 03:28:48 2014.

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Luch quit wasting your time, these broads don't want to go out with you.

Why; do you think she's Jewish?

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Re: Stalking

Posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 13:59:31 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by RIPTA42HopeTunnel on Fri Sep 19 13:56:53 2014.

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I meet Jewish women too.

As a whole, Jewish women and men are more likely to date outside their religion than any other religion. Makes sense.

Jewish women are hot.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by salaamallah@hotmail.com on Fri Sep 19 14:00:21 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 13:39:55 2014.

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ROFL
LOL
IAWTP

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Re: Stalking

Posted by Terrapin Station on Fri Sep 19 14:06:33 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 13:39:55 2014.

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no, just "pics?"

got them or not?

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Re: Stalking

Posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 14:45:59 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by Terrapin Station on Fri Sep 19 14:06:33 2014.

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stay tuned............

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Re: Stalking

Posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 14:46:01 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by Terrapin Station on Fri Sep 19 14:06:33 2014.

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stay tuned............

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Re: Stalking

Posted by TerrApin Station on Fri Sep 19 16:33:53 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 14:45:59 2014.

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Ok.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by TerrApin Station on Fri Sep 19 16:34:03 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 14:46:01 2014.

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Ok.

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Re: Stalking

Posted by Nilet on Sun Sep 21 15:35:04 2014, in response to Re: Stalking, posted by LuchAAA on Fri Sep 19 11:13:51 2014.

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Bahston accent? That'd do it.

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