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Posted by Osmosis Jones on Thu Apr 14 21:41:40 2011, in response to Re: IQ and Sex, posted by SMAZ on Thu Apr 14 18:12:21 2011. Any man who says "that guy is one ugly dude" is making such a statement.I think that if a man calls another man ugly, then that man must also secretly think of other men as being "pretty", since ugly to me in that case means that the man doesn't find him sexually attractive. Anytime we say "that guy looks cool" and wished we'd look like him, we are making such a comparison. I don't think that there's anything homosexual about saying that another guy has "nice shoes" or a "nice hat", but saying things like "I like his style" are a little more questionable. Almost all men want to look good, not just to women, but also to their male peers. Homosexuality has nothing to do with it. Looking good amongst your peers has social benefits. When you were a kid, who did you consider worthy of emulation and respect? The ugly dudes or the cool good-looking ones? Actually, I cared more about personality than anything else. I'm probably going to sound like a real airhead saying this, but people would sometimes question my choice in friends because of they way that those friends looked, and although I never understood how some men could be that shallow, it helped filter out the people I don't want to be associated with. If your sister were to bring home a boyfriend, would you be happier if he's a monstrous-looking guy or if he's attractive in aesthetics and mannerisms? I don't have a sister, but if I had a daughter (if I had a sister, I probably wouldn't care about the men she dates) his personality, morals, and her happiness would definitely my top priorities, hygiene would probably be 2nd though. |
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